Lubricant can reduce friction and make many intimate experiences more comfortable. The right choice depends on how you plan to use it, what products are involved and the compatibility instructions on every package.

Water-based lubricant

Water-based formulas are widely used and generally easy to rinse from skin, products and fabrics. They are often a practical first choice because they work with many product materials.

They may dry sooner than longer-lasting formulas. If needed, apply more rather than continuing after the lubricant no longer feels comfortable.

Silicone-based lubricant

Silicone-based formulas usually remain slippery longer and may be useful when water is involved. They can require more thorough washing from skin and surfaces.

Silicone-based lubricant may not be compatible with some silicone products. Do not assume that every silicone product will react the same way. Read both labels. If the manufacturer does not clearly approve the combination, choose a compatible alternative.

Oil-based products

Oil-based products can be long-lasting, but they are not appropriate for every situation. The CDC advises using water-based or silicone-based lubricant with external latex condoms because oil-based lubricants can weaken latex and contribute to breakage.

Also consider fabric staining and product-material compatibility before use.

A simple compatibility checklist

Before combining any lubricant, barrier and product:

1. Read the lubricant label.
2. Read the product’s compatibility instructions.
3. Check the condom or barrier package.
4. Do not substitute household products for a lubricant designed for intimate use.
5. Stop using any product that causes discomfort or irritation.

Less can be more

Start with a modest amount and add more as needed. Keep the container clean, close it after use and follow its storage and expiration instructions. Do not share containers in ways that bring the opening into direct contact with skin or products.

There is no single lubricant that is best for every person and every product. Compatibility, comfort and clear labeling matter more than marketing language.

Further reading

• CDC: Preventing HIV with Condoms